The Miscreant

The young man stood close to the sales counter, his eyes slightly downcast. With his freshly scrubbed face and in his carefully pressed trousers and shirt, he was the picture of a well-bred, well-mannered boy.
Digging the toe of his leather shoes into the carpet, he answered his mother’s inquiry with a determined, “No!” Unfortunately for him, his body language admitted what he would not.
A few minutes earlier, as he and his parents entered the trading post, his father had gently, but firmly, instructed him to keep his hands in his pockets and not touch anything.
Giving the boy a trickster’s wink, I inquired, “How will we ever make any money if kids don’t break a thing or two?” The boy’s parents did not overtly express displeasure, but their disappointment was apparent.
I imagined them thinking, “Do not listen to that bad man; he will only cause you problems. You can tell from looking at him he is trouble.”
Priscilla and I had been preparing to price certain vintage jewelry pieces, so a Ray Lovato tab necklace, several bracelets, some earrings and a few brooches were on the counter.
Apparently, the young man wandering through the trading post was not able to restrain his curiosity, and reached across the glass to closely inspect one of the bracelets.
As he did so, his inexperienced fingers fumbled and the cuff tumbled to the floor. At that moment the young man made a grave error.
Giving him a sharp look, his mother asked, “Did you touch that after we specifically asked you to keep your hands in your pockets?”
“No!” he answered far too quickly, trapping himself before he knew what had happened.
At that point the inquisition and lecture ensued. “Sweetheart, you should never lie to your parents. What kind of man will you grow up to be if you can’t tell the truth? I am not angry. I just need you to be honest; don’t tell stories.”
When the boy still could not bring himself to admit the mistake, his mother said, “This is the way it starts, with a small, insignificant lie, and the next thing you know, you are stealing cars and going to prison for a very long time. Do you want to go to prison?”
Her last comment startled me. Up to that point I was completely supportive, and felt she had been quite compassionate. Stealing cars and going to prison was, however, overstating things.
Not that I hadn’t used similar logic on my children when they were young. These parents, however, appeared much better prepared to guide their child in the proper ways of the world than I had been.
I have since learned a great deal about parenting and work hard at not making unsupported statements.
As the couple walked out with their newly minted miscreant in tow, their comments reverberated in my mind.
Although I had wanted to intervene in his behalf, out of respect for his parents, and with the hope he would redeem himself, I refrained from doing so.
Priscilla gave me a knowing look and went back to her office. Standing by the cash register, I watched the little family cross the parking lot and get into their car.
They were extremely nice, and I regretted seeing the young man in trouble. As their vehicle pulled away, I sat down at the computer to write the next Tied to the Post essay.
When I had finished the story, I asked Rick to let me read it to him. “Did that really happen?” he asked.
“Yes,” I said defensively, looking down at the floor and digging my toe into the carpet. 
Looking at me with a penetrating stare and a disbelieving scowl on his face, Rick said, “You shouldn’t tell stories. What kind of man will you grow up to be if you can’t tell the truth? The next thing you know, you will be stealing cars, going to prison for a very long time and... getting tattoos.” 
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